Happy International Women’s Day

Ok.  I know that I am late to the game but a woman has to be true to herself….and I’m a bit of a procrastinator.  (That along with the fact that I just saw that the Equal Rights bill passed the House in Illinois …still has to go to the Senate…jogged my memory to write this. I went to a great event on International Women’s Day.  All that energy in one room!  It was an amazing feeling.  Truthfully, I’m new to this aspect of my business life.  I did not have a network of women coming together to support each other earlier in my career.

In fact, some of my most difficult working relationships were with women.  (Note:  I am willing to take some of the blame as well).  In the beginning of my career, I had a number of women managers and found all but one was difficult to horrible.

However, I am willing to admit that there was some explanation for this.  When I started in business, I wore suits with ties (a woman’s version but a tie none the less).  Women were told that to get to where the men were, we had to act like men.  So we dressed up to play the part and acted like a**holes because that seemed to be what most of us saw from our male colleagues…..Act tough and you’ll get ahead.  In fact, at the beginning of my career, I supported a female and male sales person in a technical role.  The female sales person was a peer and we had a great relationship.  She got promoted and literally (not figuratively) she turned mean overnight.  I never saw such a drastic transition but it was a life lesson for me.  This was what we were being told.  There were few leadership positions for women in organizations and the unwritten rule was that your biggest obstacle to promotion was the woman above you.  It created a dog eat dog environment.  This, I believe is at least part of the reason my relationships with women were so tough.  Two female office wokers armwrestling, exerting pressure on each other, struggling for leadership.

So when I got pregnant with my first child I decided to start my own consulting firm., Between the fact that I was a new mother and I didn’t want to be travelling all of the time and I wanted to continue to work in consulting, I really didn’t think I had much of a choice. I exercised what I thought was and an obvious and single option. .  I’ve been told that that took a lot of courage because that is not the choice that many women may have made at that time.  I never really thought about it like that.  I happen to be a risk taker and figured that I had a number of potential “do-overs” in my life so I just went for it.

Full time employment options that allowed flexibility to raise children were few and far between at that time.  Women in my position (new mother) either gave up on the workforce or worked full-time (foregoing the flexibility that was so important to me).  Neither of those options were desirable outcomes so I created my own consulting firm.  I don’t remember being scared.  I never thought twice about the process.  I believe that I had a very healthy attitude about the business.  I wasn’t afraid of failing..  That doesn’t mean that there weren’t many times that I felt alone.  At the time, I lived in a bedroom community and often felt like an outsider.  Most of my friends and neighbors were stay-at-home Moms.  While I never questioned their decision, it would have been nice to have a network of working Moms to commiserate and support each other.

There were some groups focused on working women’s issues back then but meeting after meeting, the time was spent discussing work life balance issues.  I stopped going to these meetings.  The truth of the matter was that I’m pretty good at balancing work and life.  So I decided that my time was better spent with my kids at home in the evening than talking about wanting more time with my kids. We missed you Mommy!

I’m proud of where I am and what I’ve accomplished and wouldn’t have changed my direction.  Do I wish that we would be well past discussions of discrimination/bias and equal pay for women?  No doubt.  I got through it all trying to ignore all the signs.  My naivety kept me sane.  My method was to blend in and “be one of the guys” without compromising my values.  It wasn’t a stretch for me given that most of my best friends growing up were guys.  Comments such as “Did you sleep with the boss to get your role” didn’t make me pause.  Maybe it should have but I didn’t have many women at my level to commiserate with so I just chalked it up to another stupid person that I had to deal with in my business. (Plus, my great comeback lines always come to me 24 hours later.)

Truthfully, I never wanted to be hired because I’m a woman-owned business.  I wanted to be hired because we happen to be the best in strategic delivery.  That still holds true.  Many years later and additional wisdom has made me realize that I’m okay if someone wants to bring me on because we are a woman-owned business.  I can prove to them that we are the best after we’re in there.

I’ve also come to realize that initiatives focused on making special efforts to drive inclusion do help.  I look at today’s environment (International Women’s Day) and I see a lot of momentum for women in business.  Strength comes in numbers.Team buliding seminar for women

Please understand that this will still take time.  The fact that we are still talking about equal pay over 40 years later is sad.  Yet, sitting in that meeting with over 1000 women (and men) for International Women’s Day makes me hopeful that my daughters will have greater opportunities and a better support system as they progress in their careers.

Wanna win? Start at the Finish Line!

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This month our guest blogger is Eric Roberts. Eric is the Vice President of M&A at Blackberry and knows a thing or two about getting things done! A longtime friend of Peritius, we are happy to share his perspective on reaching your goals – the right way.

 

Sorta sounds like cheating, doesn’t it?  Here’s what I mean – would you ever run a race where you didn’t know the distance or where the course would take you – or when you’d get to stop running?  You just line up at the starting line, someone blows the horn and off you go…your running friend next to you says, “Boy I hope this is a short one – last year it was really long.”  Sound fun?  Of course not, it’s ridiculous!

So why then do we see companies launch new programs or initiatives or even annual planning cycles without first defining what “victory” looks like?  How do we know when to spike the ball?  When to pop the champagne?  After all, we’re going to expend significant company resources… we’re going to have nights where we don’t get to see our kids go to bed… we’re probably going hit all sorts of challenges along the way – wouldn’t we want to know precisely what winning is going to look like… precisely which mountain we’re going to climb?

If you’ll allow me to extend the sports metaphor just a bit longer – one beauty of sports is that the ultimate goal is absolutely crystal clear before the game begins.  In fact, it’s crystal clear before training begins (actually it was crystal clear before many of us were even born!).  And because of that clarity, the coach knows exactly how to prepare her team, exactly what drills need to be run, exactly where obstacles may pop up that they’ll need to mitigate.  Further, every player understands how his/her contribution aligns with the ultimate goal – and stays aligned to that well-defined objective (rarely do we see a swimmer attempt to tackle an opponent!).

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My good friend Laura hit on this a couple years back when she started referring to it as “outcome management”.  I love the emotional clarity that comes with that phrase – that is, rather than managing the program team to work really hard, hold crisp weekly meetings with tight action item lists and schedules (all very important, by the way) – manage the team to carefully defined outcomes.  Use those words: Outcomes.  Victory.  Finish Line.  The words themselves demand a level of focus by stakeholders on the project end goal.  And isn’t that exactly what you want?  A team of stakeholders who understand the ultimate outcome and how their efforts support that objective?

I have another friend who leads large Civil Engineering projects in Wisconsin.  His leadership mantra is FINISH.  It’s so easy to start projects and often easy to get them to the 90% completion stage, and unless you’ve defined very carefully what it means to be done, the team just doesn’t know when it’s there.  The project isn’t finished until that last orange barrel is picked up and the highway is swept clean!

Now, if done properly, this precise definition phase may take longer and be more uncomfortable (especially the first couple times) than you want.  You’ll need to go deep… much deeper than normal.  What are the KPI’s you’ll track and expected levels at the finish line?  How will the ongoing execution and maintenance of the program be resourced after go-live?  What will that ongoing operational budget look like?  These second order measurables not only provide the clarity needed to efficiently execute, but will drive critical activities & behaviors along the execution path.  As an example, let’s say you’re implementing the latest SaaS ERP system.  Do we get to celebrate simply by going live?  What if our defined victory included a customer satisfaction metric that we score at least 80% satisfied /  extremely satisfied within 30 days post go-live?  Now we’re on the hook to not only deliver the system on time, but also deliver a system that end users love.  That drives better use-case capture up-front, a better UI, more rigorous testing, better communication & training with the user community, etc.  By including precise measures of success at the beginning of the initiative, we automatically drive improved program performance (not to mention fewer arguments when we get to the end and resources begin to peel off to the next exciting project).

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Finally, a word about leadership in this space.  It’s been my experience that the best leaders have learned this lesson – perhaps without even thinking about it – and live & breathe it daily.  They obsess over defining their vision… including specific words that elicit an almost emotional response, inspiring followership.   (In fact, they probably drive their kids nuts with it too!)  Great program managers intuitively think this way – even project milestones use the right words / phrases / definitions.  This is, in my opinion, one of the most subtle but critical roles a leader plays – it’s a leader’s opportunity to set the bar high and stretch the organization to achieve more than it thought it could. The team can constantly reference that ultimate goal when tough prioritization decisions must be made… when obstacles are met or new team members join.  Imagine if every employee in your company (project, initiative, endeavor) not only understood, but could articulate what victory looked like (completely) AND was able to describe exactly how his/her effort contributed.  Wow!  Sounds like productivity.  Sounds like autonomy.  Sounds like the foundation of accountability.  Sounds like victory!

 Next time you kick off a new initiative, project or annual planning process (yep – it’s almost September already!), start by defining what “finished” will look like – be manic about it.  Buy the team pizza, lock yourselves in a room for an all-nighter and come out the next morning with a concrete definition of what it will look like when you win – establish an expectation of victory!  If you can do that, execution is easy.

Eric Roberts, guest blogger